Proud to Fail!

Somewhere, at this particular moment, someone is making so much effort, hard work and prayers to complete their dreams and as a result they are meeting either success or failure at the end! But does it end there? Because if it is a failure, then they could be trying once more, and if it is the success then they are wanting something more! I think this is the simple overall definition of life, which says that it never ends until you end! Yes, it is not THE definition, but it is the core at which we all are walking!

In the schools, we all learned about the story of bandwagons, but we were never used to taught about their struggles and failures that how they achieved what they achieved! We thought that school will teach us WHAT is life, how beautiful the life is, but instead; we end up learning HOW to live the life; which is something we should decide on our own! I’m not saying the things I’ve learned from school are useless, obviously they teach us something that helps us to think what we can do; what are our abilities, but with that; they are not teaching the struggle and value of the inadequacy that could occur in the path ahead! We all are taught to avoid the deficiency rather than to face it, injecting the fear of misstep is also what today’s education system is teaching us! Maybe I’ve not seen the world yet, but so far it seems they don’t want me to see the world! Instead of saying ‘Go and dig it yourself, I’m here to help; if you fail’, they are saying ‘Learn what I’m teaching; you’ll never fail!’ With the starting of our education, the only thing which we are focusing on is to get the success, but not knowing the method and process to get there! By learning the synonyms of one word, we were taught that there is an antonym too, which is stating negative meaning of that word, but we never taught that every antonym is the synonym for some another word!

In my opinion, learning about success is not going to lead you to the success, but understanding the failure can! Actually, today everyone is trying to stay away from letdown but it’s actually teaching us what is right and what is wrong and it gives you the ability to understand the both sides of the coin. Knowing what not to do may also be the right way to do what we want to do! Seeing failure as a negative side is something we're mistaking, because it is showing us the right path by stopping us on the wrong methodology! Failure is the helping hand to element the possibility of fiasco to your success, because after going through so many wrong ways, you know all the possible way to go right!

All I want to say is, don’t run away from the failure because it is just another step towards your success! Without obstacles, you’ll never understand the true value of winning! If the success without the failure is the gift, then the success with the failure is the bliss!

This is Rotli. Don’t take failure as a negative thing, because it is the Error against the disaster of your success! Be like failure, because it teach us to correct what is going wrong!