Mind Vs Mindset!

In a small beautiful family, a daughter was born. She was loved by everyone. Even she made friends outside too. Those pretty light brown eyes, dark eyebrows, glowing milky skin with a birthmark making her the beautiful princess of her parents. She was growing everyday, child to teen. Her parents never underestimated her power and brilliance as a girl. She always was inspired by her parents. She was allowed to fulfil her dreams. She used to hang out till late and she used to sleep till afternoon. She never was forced to learn cooking. She was free to wear whatever she wanted to. Her parents had no problems with her freedom and her jolly nature. She was more than happy completing her dreams and doing stuff that made her happy. What does our society call her? Is it banned to enjoy and live the life in the way a girl wants to? She was told frequently not to wear short skirts, not to roam with male friends, not to go alone for movie, not to go late outside plus she was tagged for having low character. Why? Did she do anything wrong? Did she hurt anybody? Did she do anything which might affect any body's life? No! Then what is about having low character?

This is the narrow minded and prude mentality of society. It is really too easy to judge anybody's character and personality. While understanding situation, accepting others perception and re-evaluating with an old mindset is difficult to compile. We are nobody to judge anyone. We might never know what he or she is passing through.

Everytime I step into the other's shoe, it helps me understand them a real well plus it suppresses the negative thoughts about the person.

In our society girls are treated like secondary. Everytime she has to sacrifice. Sacrificing study, sacrificing job, sacrificing her own parents, sacrificing her dreams and her likings. If she is making all the sacrifices for your betterment then can't you give her some happiness by treating her well? Can't you help her doing what she loves to do? Can't you let her work for herself? Can't you let her chase her dreams? You can do everything but you decide not to just because she is not in your priority list and because of the poor mentality of society. Science has proved that a female id's on par with a male on every part of life.

A girl is a beautiful creature on the earth. And society should respect their feelings, emotions and freedom. They have all the rights to do whatever they want to do. Treat her the way you want to be treated by others.

- Hinal Modi