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I love me!

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"I  did so much for him! And he just don't care! Is there anyone who cares about me! No one loves me; everyone wants me in tears!" These are the word of teens now a days. They are seeking something; which is supposed to seek them. People say ' Love is in the air' But I feel like; love is not in the air, it's within you! The trouble with the world is that; they want everything for themselves But expecting it from others! If someone asks you, whom do you you love the most? - how long would you take it to say 'MYSELF'? People talk about selfless love, what to do of that selfless love if you can't love yourself! Sometimes you need to disconnect and enjoy your company! You should learn to love yourself longest because, you can only assure the promise of loving yourself forever!  As such, you have to spend the rest of your life with yourself! Humans love each-other but not more than their comfort zone! So expecting something from someone will

Philotical!

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Philosophy is getting way more attention of new generation nowadays! Our generation is finding philosophies so much relating to themselves and they are getting influenced by that in very serious ways! And the interesting fact is that all the philosophies they are relating to is about either love or breakup or detachment! Our generation is getting sad and vulnerable, which is affecting the whole mindset and creativity of theirs! Instead of getting practical and sorted till age of 20, teens are more likely to be seen impractical and immature. Stuff like bad language, bad habits are becoming achievements and good stuffs like respect, values, honour are becoming a joke! Their humor is getting dirty and perspective is becoming inhuman! And the major issue with today's teen is a bad company! Even creative kids are becoming rusty and careless by getting inappropriate friends and colleagues! Philosophies are for getting ourselves a better values and ideal understanding, but the

Simplicated!

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Human nature and behaviour are getting simply complicated nowadays! Jealousy, secrets, lying, blaming, arguing, misunderstanding are the reasons why we're making simple life so complicated! Why we're becoming so complicated? Someone hears something little, says something different and third person understands something else. Although having specific special tool of communication made by none other than humans called language, we're still lacking in communication with each other because of our nature of twisting and turning the talk! The nature we've developed is a symptom of inhumanity, whereas we're basically hoping for someone's help! Love is no more a word which it actually is meant to be. We've made it common and valueless by using it nonsensical, and relationship or commited, which is now an another synonym of sexual fulfillment! Help is becoming selfish and care is becoming help-less! World is on the path of self driving without any destinat

Time to Change!

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It is often said that; "Change with the Change ... otherwise Change will Change you!" This six letter word teaches you a lot many things in your life. Once you get to Know it,How to deal with it and how to find the Positivity in that particular otherwise change! You can surely lead to a better or even best life, with a great future! "CHANGE is CONSTANT! And it won't be OTHERWISE!!" But in some stage of your life; this change might be a Confusion for many, maybe you won't even like that change or you will found out it to be the most Hellish thing on the planet! To cope-up with that change and try it out to the Best; By changing with that particular change is the best possible way one can do. The one who doesn't change can certainly not lead a happy life. Soon he might be start thinking that 'He himself is the particular reason for that change!' So the one thing to be taken care in this 'CHANGE' process is not stop 'Loving yourself

Without Proof!

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"A thing that is accepted as true or certain to happen, without any proof!" - Assumption! Every now and then we are assuming so many things and start believing in that knowing that it is just an assumption! So many times people are tend to judge on basis of just their own presumption and also start concluding the matter! But the fact is assuming someone's character or certain situation just on the basis of their outlook is not fair! It is possible that we couldn't be able to understand or don't know the background or condition of the person or situation and we might end up having an absolutely wrong or in some case hurtful conclusion! Assumptions should be logical or at least practical after looking and thinking about each and every aspects of the situation from the both negative and positive sides with the clearity in the mind that it can be totally different than what we are thinking! Not everytime we know the other person and their situation that we can

So What!

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So what? If I don't know something on earth, That's not like you knew it from birth! It's not a matter for me to get confuse, I'm clear that I don't know, so I refuse! So what? If some people are completely introvert, At least they don't open their mouth to blurt! It doesn't mean they don't have emotions, B ut they rather want to believe in solutions! So what? If for me it's right, for you it's wrong, Fact, before conclusion both are strong! But when you fail to prove your point, That doesn't mean you shouldn't join! So what? If someone is correcting your mistake, It's not a thing that your ego should take! Think like you learn something new, Next time you can say that you knew! So what? If some people do not like your work, They don't know how it's like to be a clerk! Just don't ever give up by what people think, Or you can do nothing except what people think! So what? If we can not do something others c

No one Knows No one!

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How we know what they know? We just know what they show! Maybe it is good, maybe it is bad, We don't know behind the curtain fact! So think before make it a fun, Because no one knows no one! Sometime we know we're correct, But not everything we can narrate! May be because whatever we show, They don't know or don't want to know! So try to be clear with everyone, Because no one knows no one! Sometime people gets so depress, Because they don't tell, just suppress! Maybe they are talking with a smile, Who knows they cried hard before a while! So just try to know everyone, Because no one knows no one! Maybe you are fooled by someone, And you stop supporting anyone! But not always everyone is fake, Maybe it is just we all give what we take! So don't stop helping someone, Or else no one will know no one! -Rotli.

Unsaid!

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One question that we all are asking ourselves everyday, “How the other person is feeling about me?” Well, we can't know that and we know that! We can only assume by their behaviour! HOW could we know what someone is feeling or thinking about us? The fact is we can only know what people want to show us, what they actually feel and think will always be unsaid! No one is what we think they are! Secrets and insidious thoughts lie behind the curtain! However, it doesn't mean that the person is not good, maybe the situation is not good! Maybe this 'How’ is not in our control but at least what is in our control is to share things and maintain a transparency with the people we trust. It may help avoid the misunderstandings, bad situations or wrong happenings without thinking how that person will react. Outrage and immediate anger is better than lifetime of something unbearable UNSAID! So many things happen just because we don't express, we suppress those feelings! But som

Never give up!

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What happens when you don't get the appreciation for your hard work?  What happens when somebody steals your credits? What happens when someone forgets to mention you after your tons of hard work? Lord Krishna said "Keep doing your work but don't expect for a result!" yet, as a human being, I accept that I can't be too wise to follow that. The emotion of getting hurt would never be eliminated. Yes when nobody appreciates you for all the efforts and struggle you have put into something, it will hurt you and you will certainly loose the self confidence and the motivation to work. When I was 10 years old, my parents made me learn swimming. I used to hide in cupboard or under the bed. I often refused to go for swimming because I never got any positive comments from my coach. I could not learn in those 3 months. My parents thought i was under age. After almost 3 years, I was again put in the same swimming class and I was scolded for the mistakes I did not even ma

Beyond Reality!

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Imagine you're living in 1875, no electricity was invented yet! Still people were living peacefully! Then in 1879, when imagination of Thomas Edison turned into reality by working on Benjamin Franklin's work and life got easier than before! Then politics happened and Nikola Tesla couldn't been able to turn his imagination to reality because of “War of current” with Thomas Edison! Definitely this is not a history class but this is an example that how imagination to reality turns everything at ease, which we call Revolutionary! How imagination of someone can change the world forever! How much it can affect our lives and lifestyles! We all know this stuff! But the question is what if Nikola Tesla could have succeeded into his ideas! Then possibly the world might be enjoying free electricity right now! But it didn't happen and here we are! So my point is that Before 1879, electricity was just an imagination, living with lights and fan and electronic devices wa