I love me!

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"I  did so much for him! And he just don't care! Is there anyone who cares about me! No one loves me; everyone wants me in tears!"

These are the word of teens now a days. They are seeking something; which is supposed to seek them. People say ' Love is in the air' But I feel like; love is not in the air, it's within you!

 The trouble with the world is that; they want everything for themselves But expecting it from others! If someone asks you, whom do you you love the most? - how long would you take it to say 'MYSELF'? People talk about selfless love, what to do of that selfless love if you can't love yourself! Sometimes you need to disconnect and enjoy your company! You should learn to love yourself longest because, you can only assure the promise of loving yourself forever!  As such, you have to spend the rest of your life with yourself! Humans love each-other but not more than their comfort zone! So expecting something from someone will surely lead for disappointments; finally ending up that bond! If you can love someone upto the brim and them cry out of disappointment which was pre-assumed; then it is better to invest that Love for yourself!

CHANGE- Yourself not others. Practice what you preach! Sometimes it is necessary to have a positive change within you, which can make things better! Avoid the change if it is negative! Thinking out like mess, for changing the situation and the other person is something worthless. Instead do something for yourself! Change yourself! Because, things will work out not how you have planned but how they are supposed to be. Sometimes you need to detach from everyone and everything! Detachment doesn't mean you should Own nothing but it means nothing should Own you! Try to live a #Philotopical life.

Love yourself because you only know your expectations and you can only fulfill them! Live yourself But not for others! Because when the question of WHY is clear, the HOW is easy!!

This is Vaishwi Lakhpati, sharing something about self-love! Every morning is a new challenge. So Live, Love and Hope! The best is yet to come!

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