I'mmature!

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What is maturity? 
Letting go of fool around you or trying to make them understand?
Facing the situation or wait for it to go away?
Try to hide our agony or dig it down till it ends?
Saying lie to make someone happy or telling them truth they deserve?
Having compromise for loving one or sharing your frustration without exception?
Trying to change yourself or try to change the situation?

 May be everything! But as you're reading this, so much more your brain is working to bifurcate the category where you stand! But it is not about where you stand in above situations! Maturity does not depends upon what your reaction is, but it depends upon what your intention is! Reaction can be fake but intention may be not! Rather pretending good, try intending good!

 In my opinion maturity have a simple definition,
If you are able accept, apologize and forgive an extreme situations, aware about the truth that there is much more to learn ahead then you're mature!

 -Rotli.

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