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Proud to Fail!

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Somewhere, at this particular moment, someone is making so much effort, hard work and prayers to complete their dreams and as a result they are meeting either success or failure at the end! But does it end there? Because if it is a failure, then they could be trying once more, and if it is the success then they are wanting something more! I think this is the simple overall definition of life, which says that it never ends until you end! Yes, it is not THE definition, but it is the core at which we all are walking! In the schools, we all learned about the story of bandwagons, but we were never used to taught about their struggles and failures that how they achieved what they achieved! We thought that school will teach us WHAT is life, how beautiful the life is, but instead; we end up learning HOW to live the life; which is something we should decide on our own! I’m not saying the things I’ve learned from school are useless, obviously they teach us something that helps us to thi

Inside the truth!

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Something important to ponder upon... Sometimes you may have to speak up in a way that hurts or angers someone close to you but is necessary for their benefit  And yes, sometimes it means you may elect not to share a particular truth out of care or respect for another person. The intersection of love and truth is a complex territory. What you need is a personal code of integrity that you can live with and be proud of. _Chanakya advised: “There are three questions to ask yourself before you ‘speak the truth.’ One: Are you certain it’s true? Two: Is it necessary? And three: Is it kind?” Ideally, your statements will pass all three tests.Sometimes you may find yourself called upon to say something that you know to be true and feel to be necessary, but that doesn’t seem particularly kind. In these situations, you have to examine your own intent (is it coming from a place of love, jealousy, hatred  or care for a greater good?). Then, if you do decide to share the information, do it wi