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I'm Growing!

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From hiding my tooth Under the pillow, To throwing it away In Ground below, I'm growing like White turning yellow! From crying for Small things, To laughing at That things, I'm growing like Ashamed human being! From afraid to Talk to people, To bluffing at Every people, I'm growing like Lying is simple! From sharing With parents, To hiding some Dark rare ends, I'm growing like Tree with a fence! From Sacrificing For Friends, To fighting with Those Friends, I'm growing like Thing of nonsense! From thinking for Someone else, To thinking only For myself, I'm growing like Music without clef! From innocence To penitence, I'm growing just Without preference! -Rotli.

It's Different!

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For the first time when you meet someone, you start drawing outlines in your mind and initiate the-most-dangerous process of assuming the person’s character! The outline you made, converts into some shape when you get to know them from near, when you start hanging out! And one day you’ll come up with an imaginary character of that person as per your analysis! Time flies and your perception of that person gets more likely similar to what they really are and here you starts assuming things about them, their possible reaction for particular situations, their body language and style and everything! Sometimes your assumption may fall into the place and you may start thinking that you know them perfectly and you can predict their reactions accurately. Here you starts the countdown of the bond you have created and achieve with them till now, because at some point in your life that person's reaction would not match to what you had thought! You could probably think that whatever t

Mind vs Heart!

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There was a time when moving on from any sentimental situation used to be very hard and all the decisions were taken from heart. Mind and heart have some antagonisms with each other and the decision taken was being forced by heart on mind. Something wrong happens when mind gets followed by heart because there would always be a fright living within. That freight has to be related with feelings and emotions. Being sensible is perceptible, but letting emotions and feelings start controlling your mind and making sacrifices for something or someone is discreditable. There will always be people who come into life with their whatsoever reasons and when the need of your presence would be filled, they will not take a minute to chuck up the sponge. The tendency of a heart is to believe something too quickly. Positivity is better than the negativity but the negativity can not be ignored. The thought should always be passed through mind once before taking decision because precautions are alw

Yourself!

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There are always people who can hurt you but there's only a person who can never hurt you and that is YOURSELF. You always need somebody to share your things with and everytime you will realise that you should not have shared things in the first place.  Because the people you trust are not always going to be veracious or plausible or credible. You can never count on a person other than yourself since there are numerous people who always want to see you down. Why do you expect someone to do something for you? Have you ever tried to do that 'something' to yourself? Expectations are good but not wise. The blatant truth after expectations is you always get maximum chances of breaking down, getting hurt and falling down. Plus you end up wasting your energy, time and feelings on the thing which has very less chances to get done or it could be a person who doesn't give a damn about whatsoever thing you passing through.  A wise man said, ' every situation leaves you

Fear of most of us!

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DEATH, Fear of most of us. I often prayed for that in past times, today itself, met my one of a very good friend who has just lost her lifeline, her soul mate who took his own life. Red face, red swollen eyes, she could Barely see me. Neither She has eaten a single piece of food nor drunk a drop of water. The first thing I did was hugging her a real tight. As soon as I hugged, the tears she had hold out, ran through her red cheeks and the words she whispered were ' Bring him back'. Unlike God, nobody has such powers I guess. The incident had hurt her so hard that she could no longer be able to gather her extinct species of love. She started cursing loudly and I only could hold her hands and watch her blasphemous face. The thought running into my mind was what if I would be facing any such situations in my life like this? Even a thought of losing loved ones shrinks me in fear. May be that is why I every time I ask God to keep my loved ones safe and healthy! Those crucial mo

Know what you know!

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Friend: “Do you know me?” Me: “I think so! May be I don't know you, but I understand you!” “If you don't know me, how can you understand me?” “Because understanding is something based on your own experience! I can understand why or how you're acting on particular events, that doesn't give me knowledge about who you are! Like if you say that: ‘I'm in love with someone, and I don't know what is happening to me when he appears in front of me’ I understand what you wanna say me and how you could feel at that moment, that doesn't mean that I know you! That is just a feeling that we both have faced at some point of our life! “That means you're understanding a situation not me!” “May be, yes!” “But you said you can understand ME!?” “Yes!” “No! You don't!” “Why? I mean how?” “Here you gave an example about you understand a situation, not me! So you are just aware about that situation, not me! Right?” “No no, that situation is about YO