Being Error!

"A thing that is accepted as true or certain to happen, without any proof!" - Assumption! Every now and then we are assuming so many things and start believing in that knowing that it is just an assumption! So many times people are tend to judge on basis of just their own presumption and also start concluding the matter! But the fact is assuming someone's character or certain situation just on the basis of their outlook is not fair! It is possible that we couldn't be able to understand or don't know the background or condition of the person or situation and we might end up having an absolutely wrong or in some case hurtful conclusion! Assumptions should be logical or at least practical after looking and thinking about each and every aspects of the situation from the both negative and positive sides with the clearity in the mind that it can be totally different than what we are thinking! Not everytime we know the other person and their situation that we can

So what? If I don't know something on earth, That's not like you knew it from birth! It's not a matter for me to get confuse, I'm clear that I don't know, so I refuse! So what? If some people are completely introvert, At least they don't open their mouth to blurt! It doesn't mean they don't have emotions, B ut they rather want to believe in solutions! So what? If for me it's right, for you it's wrong, Fact, before conclusion both are strong! But when you fail to prove your point, That doesn't mean you shouldn't join! So what? If someone is correcting your mistake, It's not a thing that your ego should take! Think like you learn something new, Next time you can say that you knew! So what? If some people do not like your work, They don't know how it's like to be a clerk! Just don't ever give up by what people think, Or you can do nothing except what people think! So what? If we can not do something others c

How we know what they know? We just know what they show! Maybe it is good, maybe it is bad, We don't know behind the curtain fact! So think before make it a fun, Because no one knows no one! Sometime we know we're correct, But not everything we can narrate! May be because whatever we show, They don't know or don't want to know! So try to be clear with everyone, Because no one knows no one! Sometime people gets so depress, Because they don't tell, just suppress! Maybe they are talking with a smile, Who knows they cried hard before a while! So just try to know everyone, Because no one knows no one! Maybe you are fooled by someone, And you stop supporting anyone! But not always everyone is fake, Maybe it is just we all give what we take! So don't stop helping someone, Or else no one will know no one! -Rotli.

One question that we all are asking ourselves everyday, “How the other person is feeling about me?” Well, we can't know that and we know that! We can only assume by their behaviour! HOW could we know what someone is feeling or thinking about us? The fact is we can only know what people want to show us, what they actually feel and think will always be unsaid! No one is what we think they are! Secrets and insidious thoughts lie behind the curtain! However, it doesn't mean that the person is not good, maybe the situation is not good! Maybe this 'How’ is not in our control but at least what is in our control is to share things and maintain a transparency with the people we trust. It may help avoid the misunderstandings, bad situations or wrong happenings without thinking how that person will react. Outrage and immediate anger is better than lifetime of something unbearable UNSAID! So many things happen just because we don't express, we suppress those feelings! But som

What happens when you don't get the appreciation for your hard work?  What happens when somebody steals your credits? What happens when someone forgets to mention you after your tons of hard work? Lord Krishna said "Keep doing your work but don't expect for a result!" yet, as a human being, I accept that I can't be too wise to follow that. The emotion of getting hurt would never be eliminated. Yes when nobody appreciates you for all the efforts and struggle you have put into something, it will hurt you and you will certainly loose the self confidence and the motivation to work. When I was 10 years old, my parents made me learn swimming. I used to hide in cupboard or under the bed. I often refused to go for swimming because I never got any positive comments from my coach. I could not learn in those 3 months. My parents thought i was under age. After almost 3 years, I was again put in the same swimming class and I was scolded for the mistakes I did not even ma